Poor Jane, instead of seeing her faults and improving, she decided to blame others and run away: yes, that's selfishness. The girl was the one who had the least blame there.
I'm not sure I liked that he purposed before the divorce was final, but we certainly knew it was coming.
I'm not sure how a mother could abandon her child, treat her so incidentally for a year, and then complain about not having a relationship with her. She clearly never heard the parental rule that the way kids spell love is T-I-M-E.
I was seriously happy to see the FL chewing out the mother.
The nice touch was the kid not calling the FL mom but "mama ursula", which is good because the mom is very much still alive and the kid has years before she can work out (through therapy) if she ever wants to call her that again or go by first name instead.